Thank You

Two years. It’s hard to believe how fast time goes by, especially when you can still clearly hear, smell and see things so vividly – like yesterday. I’m so grateful for that though and reminded of how real it all was. Not a moment goes by where I don’t see your beautiful smile, laugh at…

First Date

16 years ago today, I went on a first date with a girl I had actually fallen really hard for, about 11 years earlier.  We met and had dinner at Grandstands in Paris, shortly after connecting at a local dance at the Princeton Centennial Hall back during the summer of 2005. I first laid eyes…

Five Hundred, Twenty-Five Thousand, Six Hundred Minutes

How do you measure a year? 1 Year.  Just those words – and it doesn’t even seem real.  As challenging as this year has been for our family, to think that a year has gone by since we lost the love of our lives, it just doesn’t seem real.  And yet, I know it is…and…

Happy Birthday Sara Jane ❤️

One of my best friends, just lost his best friend yesterday. When I first heard about Sara’s dire situation, it was both eerily too familiar and also very sad.  I found myself instantly recalling the last time visiting with her, Brock and the kids at my moms this summer, and also getting together for a…

Happy 12th Love – Feb 16th, 2008

12 Years. 12 years ago today, my best friend, my love, my whole world.  You made me the luckiest guy in the world by marrying me on a sunny and crisp winter day. I’ll never forget how beautiful and perfect everything was that day – all because of you. We used to reminisce and smile…

A Single Tear

Last night, I lost the love of my life. My sounding board. My go-to person. My Best Friend. I had just finished eating dinner, with my two brothers and father in law, which included memorable chats about growing up and old friends, when I went into the room to trade places with Connie, bedside next…

Jo’s Final Journey

Hi Everyone.  It has been both a beautiful and incredibly difficult week for our family. A week of many tears, smiles, memories shared and visits from family and friends.  We are so grateful for everything (and everyone) even at such a challenging time. I know it’s been a while since you have all heard from…

Last Christmas / This Christmas

Last Christmas I was still hopeful for a cure. We were ending my first line of incredibly aggressive treatment which was very strong chemo, internal and external radiation. By time Christmas approached I was an absolute shell of a person. Completely ravaged by the poison we were trying to use to save me. Unable to…

Foul Ball

(expanding on last weeks update with go forward plan) I thought we’d keep the baseball ⚾️ metaphor going….. and it’s not just because our hockey team has been on an epic losing streak! I stand now, a step out of the box, knocking some loose soil off my cleats, trying to refocus. Ladies and Gentlemen,…